Friday, September 24, 2010

What He's Really Thinking the First Time You Have Sex

Dying to know the naked truth about what goes through his mind before, during, and after the deed? You've come to the right place. We got some brutally honest men to confess. (Warning: A few of these comments are gonna make you cringe.) redesignPageHead ABOVE SHOULD EXIST ON ALL ARTICLE PAGES (FOR NOW) (IE style comments prevent IE6 character repeat bug on Video Gallery Landing Page) Wait you mean washing your sheets twice a year isn't normal?Wait you mean washing your sheets twice a year isn't normal?

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So you've been dating your guy for a while (or hey, maybe 10 minutes) and now it's the moment of truth...your first night together in the sack. What's he thinking as the lights go low? You may assume you know what's running through the male brain, but believe us, you have no idea. While you're obsessing about leg stubble and trying to remember if your bra and panties match, a guy's dirty mind is all over the map. Cosmo grilled a bunch of men for the raw details on what he's really thinking the first time you get it on.

How He Preps for First-Time Sex with You

"I set aside that afternoon to clean, and if she's really hot, I'll even take off from work early. You don't want her to open the closet and say, 'What the hell is a dried-up spaghetti dish doing on the floor?' If she sees pubic hairs on the toilet, you're not going to get any."
—Steve, 32, filmmaker

"I make sure my room's clean, but I don't need to have her walk into a love palace. Do I have candles and incense and flowers? No, that's trying way too hard."
—Simon, 24, deejay

"I make sure I've got condoms around. There's nothing worse than having to fumble around looking for a condom when you're about to have sex, especially the first time you're with someone. You look like an idiot."
—Evan, 30, lawyer

"I shoot off a round before she comes over so I don't get overly excited and lose it too fast when we hook up."
—David, 26, sound engineer

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